I didn’t realize that the reason I continued to struggle was because I was looking for my answers in all the wrong places. I was searching for an easier way to do the hard work of emotional healing. I wanted someone to tell me what was “wrong” with me – them I wanted them to fix me. I read books thinking “So-and-so should read this….” Instead of reading for my own lessons. When I’d come to the end and realized I had no more options; there was no one who could “fix” me…I realized that the problem wasn’t me…that I wasn’t broken, that I didn’t need fixing but rather – that I needed to take all the lessons I’d learned for everyone else and learn how to live for myself.